Accuser VS Denial

Have you ever been accuse by something that you never done? Have try to explain, and public claims that you are denying the truth? Have you ever, thought of revenge after being accuse?
This question has prompt me this morning and it reminded me so much of my Lord Jesus suffered before He gone through crucifixion?


I have ever thought of it... if I didn't commit any wrongs and been accused for such act. I will definitely fight my way out for justice, but is there any justice for my Lord who knew no sins and been nailed on the cross? Answer is NO!


I always find that it quite contradicting, over this issue... Allow me to bring you some example:


Act 1 (Questioning)

John : Eh… I heard that you have stolen a wallet out from Metro.

Tom : NO! I didn’t you don’t accuse me for that…

John : Don’t fake with me

Tom: No.. NEVER!

Ended up fighting…………



Act 2(Concerning)

John : Bro, I am sorry, but I think I have heard from someone that you have taken a wallet out from Metro… Did I hear wrongly?

Tom: Er…. Yes... you did hear wrongly.

John: Oh? Ok perhaps, I really hear wrongly..

Tom: (softer tone) haha.. Yeah.. You have heard wrongly.


Above two acts were dealing with the same problem but with different attitudes. It show that when people show more concern to someone, that “Tom” will reconcile although, he never admit it, but he sounded different from the Act 1.


Here is another example No.2 whom the victims seriously done nothing and being accused.
Act A (Hot temper):

John: Eh… I heard that you have taken a wallet from Metro…

Tom: #@&* You don’t accuse me for something I didn’t do ok?

John: You don’t deny.

Tom: #*(&$#@^$&%*@!^&*#@ You trust me, I will wack you, if you continue accusing me!

John: You are thief!!!

Tom : Bash!#@&*#&@ John….



Act B (Clear minded):

John: Eh… I heard that, you stolen a wallet out from Metro

Tom: hahah… you must be kidding.. Nope.. I didn’t

John: You can deceive everyone but not me, ok?

Tom: if you insist, I did, so be it. Is meaningless for clarification, anyway I will not hold grudges against you.

At this point, John will really keep his mouth shut and reserve certain avenues to believe in Tom's character.


Act B Tom, is much cool headed to think and react in that way, but how many of us are really like Act B Tom?

Maybe we will just ignore the other party who accusing us, but to hold no grudges against that person, I personally feel is hard…. Well... I am still learning to be someone with "Cool" temper, to handle things and also with a forgiving heart.