Independent??? ( I Love my MUM)

A few days ago, I was having a argument with my sis regarding "Independent". She repeatedly saying, that I am not independent, and at the age of 28 still relying on my mum.

Frankly speak what is Independent? How many of us know what it really mean? I have collected some information on independent.

1)Earn your own money and spend your own.
2)Make own decision
3)Not depending on authority
4)Self-governing (similar as point no.2)

And how can we carry out this kind of action?
1)Stay on your own
2)Managing everything by your own.

Well.... I can't think anything more... Well.. being as independent does it mean to be ALONE? Does it mean to be asking for PRIVACY? On what's circumstance human can be totally independent?

What is the definition of independent?
Being independent is it to be restrict yourself from getting closer to be your family whereas they are still around or it is something that people can still laughing at oneself at my age still sticking on my mum as a mummy's girl?


If to be independent is to lock myself away from my family members and to be on my own. I think my life will be much a prisoner.. because they are really on their own. Oh.. or perhaps not, they still have the prisoner officer to guide them back on right track.


I personally find that is nothing wrong with me, for being so close and sticky over my mum, because I LOVE HER! She is part of my life, is like without her, mean to me is without life... is equivalent to, without God I am nothing. I love to stay with my mum to show her, how much I love her, I think money can't pay that price! and I can't buy my sister's idea for saying me not independent.

I didn't ask my mum for money, I done my part as a daughter, honoring my mum and give her monthly allowance. I done my part to bring her out every weeks. My mum is like my best friend, she understand me like no one does. She dotes me like I am the only person on earth. If by sticking so close to my mum make them feel that I am not independent, I can find that those humans out there lack of LOVE and KINSHIP in their life. Independent is not mean by ALONE and is NOT PRIVACY.


Sandy thinks," Independent mean, doing your thing on your own, make the important decision on your own, but nevertheless always seek highest authority for opinions before making the final decision! because we do not want to live with regrets and even we chose the wrong choices, there is still someone who standing by supporting you morally and recognized your hardship!"