Accuser VS Denial

Have you ever been accuse by something that you never done? Have try to explain, and public claims that you are denying the truth? Have you ever, thought of revenge after being accuse?
This question has prompt me this morning and it reminded me so much of my Lord Jesus suffered before He gone through crucifixion?


I have ever thought of it... if I didn't commit any wrongs and been accused for such act. I will definitely fight my way out for justice, but is there any justice for my Lord who knew no sins and been nailed on the cross? Answer is NO!


I always find that it quite contradicting, over this issue... Allow me to bring you some example:


Act 1 (Questioning)

John : Eh… I heard that you have stolen a wallet out from Metro.

Tom : NO! I didn’t you don’t accuse me for that…

John : Don’t fake with me

Tom: No.. NEVER!

Ended up fighting…………



Act 2(Concerning)

John : Bro, I am sorry, but I think I have heard from someone that you have taken a wallet out from Metro… Did I hear wrongly?

Tom: Er…. Yes... you did hear wrongly.

John: Oh? Ok perhaps, I really hear wrongly..

Tom: (softer tone) haha.. Yeah.. You have heard wrongly.


Above two acts were dealing with the same problem but with different attitudes. It show that when people show more concern to someone, that “Tom” will reconcile although, he never admit it, but he sounded different from the Act 1.


Here is another example No.2 whom the victims seriously done nothing and being accused.
Act A (Hot temper):

John: Eh… I heard that you have taken a wallet from Metro…

Tom: #@&* You don’t accuse me for something I didn’t do ok?

John: You don’t deny.

Tom: #*(&$#@^$&%*@!^&*#@ You trust me, I will wack you, if you continue accusing me!

John: You are thief!!!

Tom : Bash!#@&*#&@ John….



Act B (Clear minded):

John: Eh… I heard that, you stolen a wallet out from Metro

Tom: hahah… you must be kidding.. Nope.. I didn’t

John: You can deceive everyone but not me, ok?

Tom: if you insist, I did, so be it. Is meaningless for clarification, anyway I will not hold grudges against you.

At this point, John will really keep his mouth shut and reserve certain avenues to believe in Tom's character.


Act B Tom, is much cool headed to think and react in that way, but how many of us are really like Act B Tom?

Maybe we will just ignore the other party who accusing us, but to hold no grudges against that person, I personally feel is hard…. Well... I am still learning to be someone with "Cool" temper, to handle things and also with a forgiving heart.

Belated Valentine's Gift From Darling

Have started work for 2 weeks, thanks God everything still in His good hand. I celebrated my 5th Valentine's day with Andy last Monday. Yeah! I know Valentine's day was supposed on the Tuesday, but Stewpig Andy had totally forgotten that Tuesday was Valentine's day and he had arranged his car lesson on that day. (So romantic hor, celebrated his 1st Valentine's day with an uncle. =_="')

You never ever expect, where we spent our Valentine's, It was none other than the famous "Katong Laksa" at Kotong =_= quite lame rite? Anyway, it was quite ok for me, didn't expect much from him. Yeah! not even a bouquet of roses or "carnations".

Well, actually I am someone rather more practical than fantasize on flowers and candle light dinner on Valentine's day.
Hmm... yeah lah yeah lah... maybe once in a time give me little surprise will be lovely, but not necessary to be on Valentine's day, it so expensive lor. On Valentine's day, those resturant managements, are their time be part-time day-light robberies. Simple thing like, sirlion steak can cost you SGD50+++ Wah... the cow drank bird-nest as water and eat ginseng as grass one is it?

Anyway, my darling has always been nice to me, he bought me a new cellphone. Aaaaawwwwwwwwww.... so nice of him right? This is going to be the number 7 cellphones in my life.

1st cellphone was Philip Genie.. the 1st phone which started of the "voice dial" funtion... That everyone started behaving stupid, kept calling their phone "Amy"
Reason for changing phone: Philip Genie was not very user and the ringing was very soft.

2nd cellphone was Nokia 6110... wah~~~ that one was the "hard"core drop on the floor several times yet no scratches or damages. The outlook of the phone was very famous that time, people used to call it 变色龙 and was also the 1st Nokia GSM phone.
Reason for changing phone: Didn't really want to change phone, because I was so stewpig that brought my phone to some ah beng's shop to modify the housing, and caused the LCD screen failed me.

3rd cellphone was Nokia 8210.. the 1st Nokia phone that can change housing/casing/clothing. I loved that phone so much as is so small and light..
Reason for changing phone: I loved the phone very much didn't really want to change it, but there was one incident, that caused me really mad and smashed the phone on the ground. As the result, the screen was occasionally unable to read, so out of no choice have to fast fast changed new phone before the authorize dealer refused to let me trade in.

4th cellphone was Nokia 8855 look alike 8850 but was chrome in dark blue colour... wasn't very user friendly as that was a slide phone and some of the buttons like * and # was sort of been "eaten" it I used the phone barely more than 7 months, and decided to trade away the phone.
Reason for changing phone: Do I have to repeat all over again?

5th cellphone was Nokia 7250 the 1st Nokia build in camera phone. Bought it because it was a "coloured" phone plus it can take picture, I am also very narcissistic. (although I am not very chio lah!)
Reason for changing phone: Andy and I used to have the same phone, and that Stewpig Andy had changed to another model, so out of anger I have traded away the phone and gotten Nokia 7610

6th cellphone was Nokia 7610 the 1st Nokia phone with moive editor.. with external mmc card.. What's more it have a build in dictionary... chio chio right?
Reason for changing: The phone has always "hang" really feel like taking a hanger to hang it up, yet I refuse to trade away the phone, cos' I have alot of good mermory taken with my JMM (Jie Mei Men)

7th cellphone (current) Nokia N70 the 1st 3G phone with 2 mega pixels and what's more Cnet Editor's choice leh!

Don't know the features yet, just gotten it out from the oven couple of hours ago, still charging it. Shall keep you posted of my new phone.

Hmmmm... I took a fast calculation, I realised that, I have been supporting Nokia for 3 generations... Wah....... out of the 7 phones, 6 of them are Nokia sets. Which mean I am a Nokia's hardcore fans. Hmmmm... Don't know by supporting them for so long, will they give me any VIP privilege card for my number 8 phone. LOL.... Haiz... but recently, Nokia handsets are a bit obiang leh... so huge and bulky... compare to Motorola V3 it is so slim and stylo... I think Nokia phones must go on diet.. all the latest models look so "fat".

Wahaha... yeah! another crappy jokes. Ok.. that's all for now.. Heading to bed now, still have to wake up early for service tomorrow.

***~~~---===开工大吉===---~~~***

Thanks God for blessing me on my 1st day at work! I was the earliest there, perhaps I was too nervous didn't manage to get enough sleep the night before, but thanks God that I manage to be at office at 8.15am. None of my colleagues or boss were there on time.


Around 8.32am, I saw a familar face. Yes! that is my director Nancy, she greeted me morning, as usual, me with good-manners greeted her morning too plus GONG XI FA CAI and passed her two mandrain oranges.


At first, I thought my boss will give me an ang po, but hor.... she didn't leh........ =_= Well.. Is OK. I think she didn't expect me to give her oranges, but...but.... but hor, she took my oranges never return me leh... (as Chinese customs she should at least give me a 好兆头mah)



Ok.. ok... ang po and oranges aside, I am a Christian shouldn't be so pan-tang (supersitious). Today was my 1st day of work, so as what I expected, there were not much thing for me to do, Although, there were nothing much for me to do, however I can feel that my director has very high expectations on me.
Phew~~~ stress siah.. hahaha actually not that bad lah... In fact, I should say, I feel wanted and belonging...



Times at Chapman is much easy to pass compare with Accura. I pray that, this job will "surprise" me more than what I expect.
Ok....... that's for now... I really very sleepy and "stone-ing"....................... ZZzzzZZzzZzZZzzZZzzzZZzzz

My Father will work ahead of me (Yes, I know)

In few hours time, I am gonna be the staff of Chapman Freight. Yeah! Tomorrow will be1st day work leow~ I am having a mixture feeling, as the previous year, I had changed 4th job? I really hoping that NO MORE job hopping incident will happen in year 2006, not even 2007 or 2008. I wish to stay longer than before.

As Clara, had mentioned this... We might not be the good employee, but we must at least be the good Christian for God. This statement has motivate me, I do not need to please the whole world to be a good staff or whatsoever, cause living for others are hard to survive, because the world will never get enough.. You give them 10 they want 100 when you give them 100 then want 1000..... (snowball go on and on) Man can never satisfy with what they have.

Even as tomorrow, will be my first day at work, I sincerely pray that I will gain favour from my boss and fellow senior colleagues. I also pray that I will not be to slack at work.... Father, I ask that the colleagues will be patience to teach and guide me. I also ask of your wisdom and knowledge to enable me, so that, I will be able to understand and adsorb all teaching. Dear Lord, may all my days at work be an enrichment to me and my hardwork be able glorify You. Abba Father, may You handle those "mission impossible" in my life.. and work ahead of me. In the most mighty name of Jesus I pray, Amen~

Off to Malaysia again

Is Thursday morning, Andy and I were on leave, so Andy suggested to explore the newly open shopping centre at J.B which is twice as big as Suntec. On our long way from Johor custom, pass by Malaysia Carrefour.

Finally, we reached our destination JUSCO

We made our way to the carpark. Quite funny.... they actually played lambdas music to welcome us (customers).

Due to long journey from Singapore to Jusco, the 1st thing we visited was the rest-room...

Eh.... eh.....eh?????


Why got this in the toilet?????? Jusco's toilet also sharing the same Balcony's concept? Unisex toilets ???
Orrrrh... that is convenient for the mummy to bring their kids (boy) to the female toilet for wee-wee... keke... quite thoughtful har?

After the "nature call" we began to explore the whole building of Jusco.... We pass by this shop quite similar with Ya Kun Roti.

But think the roti will not be as good as Singapore Ya Kun, cause there was not much crowd.

The building structure is more like Singapore IMM. The products sell there are similar to Wisma, they have those "long time no see" Boutique shop like Naf Naf, Elle Paris, etc... the pricing is not much different, from Singapore in fact some are more expensive, don't think that J.B everything also cheaper than Singapore.

1st storey are all branded boutiques and supermarkets where about.

2nd storey there are Electronic products and other cute cute shop for home
decoration.

Whereas, 3rd storey (top level) are all the restaurants. Which they call it as RESTORAN.

We have been like country pumpkins from 2.30pm to 6.45pm we were kinda hungry and tired... so Andy suggested to settle down in one of the restoran to have dinner.
and so....... we picked this.....

Have you been to Bangkok MK? The popular Steamboat in Thailand. This shop selling the same, but with no pork. =_="'

Spinach Noddles

Uncooked beef

This is the special sauce that most of the food MUST dip with this sauce so that the food will become more tasty, Thai Steamboat mah... perhaps they have put certain magic spells.. on it to make it more wonderful.. LOL (that is crappy! Yeah.. I know!)

After we have finished our dinner, Andy and I spotted a big crowd queuing up for "something",
as curiosity kill the cats I went to find out what great deal they were having....

Eh.... eh.......... Why green colour one?

Heard from those 三姑六婆, that is the green tea flavors. I ever saw it selling in Swesen and Galarie, but those are the "hard" ice cream... but here, they are selling the "softie" kind... so I told Andy to get one and try... and Andy insisted to get two.

Me: Don't want lah... later not nice how? we buy one and try 1st lah...

Andy: ok lor...

Meantime, Andy queuing for the ice-cream I was happily taking "ice-cream making"

Me: Quickly eat see if is nice anot... (怕死不敢吃...)

Andy: Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...

Me: Har??? Nice anot???

Andy: Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....

Me: What lah... nice a not?????

Andy: Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..... 你自己试试 lor...

So I took over the ice-cream and my mind run wild.........




Before I tasted the ice-cream, I felt like a bit yucky~ cause the colour look so much like duck's poo.... but after I tasted it, (don't ask me if I ever taste a duck's poo) is really very nice..

It taste like.... like.... like... green tea lor... ok... with combination of sesame seed... is like those after you eat too much will feel full and 腻 lor... no harm trying lah... I might look abit exaggerate, but really very nice!

Ok... 玩够了，吃过了 got to go back to Singapore before the custom jam again.
Bye Jusco~

福到！

I supposed to blog this post on the 29/01/2006, Chinese Lunar New Year, so this is one of the late post. I have attended church service on Sunday, I actually told God that, I don't wish to weep or cry during the worship, as my eyes make-up was really chio chio lor...

However, I still couldn't control, I cried till 唏哩哗啦~ the sermon was real good and it reminded me that, I have a unfinished task for God. My mission and agreement with God is to see my whole family come to save.
Yes! some of you may find that Sandy is preaching again, but I must be serious with you this time! you can ignore your life, but not your parents life!

Pastor Eugene Seow had brought us to the verse,
"1Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2"Honor your father and mother"—which is the first commandment with a promise— 3"that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth." (Ephesians 6:1-3)

In the passage mean honor our fathers and mothers... however, it also mean honor our Heavenly Father too. Even the famous ten commandments that God given to Moses also taught us to honour our parents.
17 "Anyone who curses his father or mother must be put to death." (Exodus 21:17)

I understand at this generation we seldom communicate with our parents, we don't bother to communicate with them, in fact, I have encounter kids always run-away from home as a threaten to the parents. We have show no mercy for our parents. We don't give our parents chance to enter to our "kingdom", we insist that they don't understand us.

It reflect the same to our relationship between God and us, we always says that we love God. When someone question us, how much do you love God? We often hesitate, or we push off the question. Yes! we are no saint! but, as a simple one to respect and honor our parents, we can't even do it. How can we say that we love our Father in heaven? Perhaps, you may also say that is between you and your parents business, I am just a outsider. Of course, who gives me the the rights to correct you? Because at the end of the day you are the one who answer not me.

Pastor has taught us a important education learning on the word "福"

A family must have a plantation in order to survive. (don't give me craps saying, now modern world don't work on plantation! you still eating the rice from the plantation right?) yet is not a complete 福 it's just half of it. cause we miss out the :-

Yes! we miss out God in our family.. so is a incomplete fortune, as this 部首can been seen in the words like 神，禄，祢，祝，祷. All this Chinese characters without that 部首 will be insignificant.

I have to do my part... I MUST lead my family include my mum and eldest sister to Christ! Because, that is only time my whole family will receive the abundance 福!

My JMM (姐妹们)

Photo taken after my service...

From left to right: Clara, Jasmine, Louisa(same network but different cell group), Serene and moi~ Oh no!!! is that my tummy????????I look so fat in this picture... Ai yo~~~~~ sit-up here I come.....

(Photo taken by Louisa) Not very good. Louisa please help me to retake again...

Eh... Can you spot the different???? Let's play photo hunt... Kindly point out the five differences to proceed to the next level... LOL...

I hope that, one day I able to take all my JMM pictures to put in my blog. I know that, my God will grant my wish!